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Before You Wire Money: Private Lending LIVE!

Dates: July 14 and July 15, 2026


Time: 4pm PST / 6pm CT / 7pm ET

RESERVE YOUR SPOT!!

Maybe you've reached a point where you have some money you'd like to put to work.


Not millions.


Not enough to think of yourself as a professional investor.


Just enough that you'd rather see it earning a return than sitting in a savings account.


Then someone mentions private lending.


Or a friend brings you a deal.


Or a family member asks if you'd consider helping fund a project.


At first, it seems simple.


Until you realize the decision isn't.


Because saying "yes" means putting your money into someone else's project where the returns look promising.


And suddenly you're wondering...


How do I know if this is actually a good decision?


Most people assume the answer is to become an expert.


Learn everything.


Understand every document.


Know construction.


Know title.


Know underwriting.


Know real estate.


That's not the answer at all.

A Different Way to Think About It

Most people assume they have two choices.


Spend hundreds of hours learning everything there is to know about private lending...


Or rely on trust, instinct, and hope your gut leads you to the right decision.


Neither is a very good option.


Because the goal was never to become an expert at every part of the process.


Think about almost any important decision you'll make.


You don't become a personal trainer before getting in shape.


You don't become a contractor before remodeling your kitchen.


You don't become a closing attorney before buying a property.


In each case, the goal isn't to become the professional.


The goal is to know enough to make a good decision.


Putting your money to work is no different.


You don't need to know how to perform every part of the process yourself.


You do need to know what matters.


What questions to ask.


What risks deserve a closer look.


And when it's time to move forward...


Or walk away.


That's a very different standard.


Your role isn't to do every part of the process.


Your role is to understand enough to ask good questions, recognize potential problems, and make good decisions before putting your money to work.




So What Does "Enough" Look Like?

That's the natural question.


If you don't need to become an expert...


What do you need to know?


Not every answer.


Not every document.


Not every step in the lending process.


You need a reliable way to think through the opportunities that come your way.


Because when someone asks you to fund a deal, the biggest risk usually isn't that you don't know enough.


It's that you don't know what deserves a closer look.


When you don't have a way to think through the decision...


It's easy to rely on trust.


Or instinct.


Or the confidence of the person sitting across from you.


Trust matters.


Relationships matter.


But neither one is a substitute for good decision-making.


The goal isn't to become suspicious.


The goal is to become thoughtful.


To know where to look.


To recognize what deserves another question before your money changes hands.


That's exactly why we created Before You Wire Money.




Why We Learned This the Hard Way

Several years ago, a woman named Katie approached us about making a private loan.


Katie was thoughtful.


She was responsible.


She genuinely wanted to do things the right way.


We trusted her.


We asked questions.


We reviewed the opportunity.


And we made the loan.


Eventually, we got every dollar of our money back.


From the outside...


It looked like a successful loan.


It wasn't.


The relationship was damaged.


Not because Katie was dishonest.


Not because anyone had bad intentions.


Because we eventually realized something important.


We were asking questions.


Just not the questions that mattered most.


That experience changed the way we think about private lending.


It taught us that trust is important.


But trust is not a substitute for knowing what deserves a closer look.


The relationship doesn't have to change.


The conversation does.




Three Questions That Change the Conversation

That experience eventually led us to a simple realization.


The quality of a lending decision usually comes down to a handful of questions.


Not hundreds.


Three.


Every private lending opportunity is different.


Every borrower is different.


Every property is different.


But before deciding whether to put your money at risk, experienced private lenders almost always think through the same three areas.


1. Can they do what they say they're going to do?


Not because you're trying to catch someone making a mistake.


Because the person you're lending to matters.


Experience matters.


Preparation matters.


The right questions help you recognize whether someone is ready to do what they're asking you to fund.


2. Does the deal make sense?


Not just because the numbers look good.


Because good opportunities still deserve good questions.


What's it worth?


What's the plan?


What assumptions deserve a closer look?


3. How do I get paid back?


Every loan should begin with the end in mind.


What's the exit strategy?


What happens if everything goes according to plan?


And what happens if it doesn't?


Those three questions aren't a checklist that replaces judgment.


They're a different way to look at every lending opportunity.


They show you where to begin.


They show you what deserves a closer look.


And they change the conversation before a decision is ever made.




You'll Start Looking at Opportunities Differently

Those three questions do something most people don't expect.


They change what you notice.


Imagine a friend calls and says,

"I've got a great opportunity."


Before, your first reaction might have been: "I trust him."


"This sounds promising."


"I wonder what kind of return I'll make?"


Now the conversation starts somewhere different.


"Walk me through how you arrived at that number."


"What do you expect the property to be worth when you're finished?"


"How do you plan to pay the loan back?"


The relationship doesn't change.


The conversation does.


You still value the relationship.


You still want to help if it's the right opportunity.


But instead of relying on trust and instinct alone...


You have a better way to think through the opportunity sitting in front of you.


That's the real transformation.


Not becoming a full-time private lending professional.


Becoming someone who sees what deserves a closer look before deciding whether to put your money at risk.




Why Knowing the Questions Isn't Enough

If simply knowing the three questions were enough...


You wouldn't need this Live Event.


The value isn't memorizing the questions.


The value is learning how experienced private lenders think through them.


Because that's where better decisions come from.


Not from having a list.


From recognizing what deserves a closer look.


That's why two people can look at the very same opportunity...


Ask the very same three questions...


And walk away with completely different conclusions.


One sees a promising opportunity.


The other notices assumptions that haven't been tested.


Questions that still need answers.


Risks that deserve another look before money changes hands.


The difference isn't intelligence.


The difference is what they recognize.


That's what we'll walk through together.


Not just what questions experienced private lenders ask...


But why they ask them.


What they're listening for.


What makes them slow down.


What gives them confidence to move forward...


Or the discipline to walk away.


By the end of these two evenings...


You won't just remember three questions.


You'll never look at a lending opportunity the same way again.


Because once you learn to recognize what experienced private lenders recognize...


You can't unsee it.




What We'll Do Together

Over two live evenings, Mitch will walk through how experienced private lenders think before deciding whether an opportunity is worth putting their money at risk.


Not by overwhelming you with technical information.


And not by expecting you to become an expert overnight.


Instead, you'll walk through real lending opportunities together.


You'll see why experienced lenders slow down at certain moments...


Why they ask the questions they ask...


And what they're paying attention to before they decide whether to move forward.


Along the way, you'll begin recognizing patterns that are difficult to see when you're new to private lending.


Patterns that help you ask better questions.


Make better decisions.


Protect your money.


And honor the relationships that matter.


You'll have the opportunity to ask questions throughout the Live Event, hear how Mitch thinks through different situations, and learn alongside others who want a better way to approach private lending.


The goal isn't to help you memorize a framework.


It's to help you develop a different way of looking at lending opportunities that you'll continue using long after the Live Event is over.




Who This Live Event Is For

Maybe you've reached a point where you have some money you'd like to put to work...


But you've been waiting until you had a better way to decide which opportunities are worth the risk.


Or maybe someone has already brought you a lending opportunity...


And you've realized that trusting the person and deciding whether to make the loan aren't the same thing.


Maybe you've already made a few private loans.


Some have gone well.


But you've still found yourself wondering if you were asking the right questions.


Or maybe no one has approached you yet.


You simply know that day is coming.


And you'd rather learn how to think through those opportunities now than try to figure it out while someone is waiting for an answer.


This Live Event wasn't created for people looking for another investing strategy.


Or another certification.


Or another binder that ends up sitting on a shelf.


It was created for people who want a better way to think before putting their money to work.


People who want to ask better questions.


Make better decisions.


Protect their money.


And honor the relationships that matter.


If you recognized yourself anywhere in these pages...


You're exactly who we built this Live Event for.




Why Learn This From Mitch Messer?

 Over the last two decades, Mitch has looked at lending opportunities from every angle.


Some became great loans.


Some became valuable lessons.


And some never happened because the questions uncovered something that wasn't obvious at first.


Over time, patterns begin to emerge.


Certain answers deserve a follow-up question.


Certain assumptions deserve a closer look.


Certain opportunities are worth moving toward.


Others are worth walking away from.


That's not because Mitch  has access to different information than everyone else.


It's because experience teaches you what deserves your attention before you put your money at risk.


Over the years, he's also watched other lenders make expensive mistakes.


Not because they weren't intelligent.


But because they overlooked something that deserved a closer look.


That's the perspective Mitch will share throughout these two evenings.


Not so you can think exactly like he does.


But so you can begin recognizing the patterns experienced private lenders have learned to notice over years of making loans, seeing mistakes, and learning from both.




What to Expect

When the Live Event ends...


We don't want you walking away with pages of notes you'll never look at again.


We want you walking away with a different way of approaching every lending opportunity that comes your way.


To support that, your registration includes:

  • Two live online sessions with Mitch Messer, where you'll walk through how experienced private lenders think before deciding whether an opportunity is worth putting their money at risk.
  • Live Q&A, so you can ask questions about the concepts, the examples, and the situations you're most likely to encounter.
  • Resources and reference materials designed to help you continue applying what you've learned long after the Live Event ends.

The goal isn't to give you more information.


It's to help you develop a way of thinking you'll continue using the next time someone brings you an opportunity.


And the time after that.


And the one after that.


The next lending opportunity will come.


Whether it's next week...


Next month...


Or six months from now...


Someone will eventually bring you an opportunity.


The question isn't whether that moment will come.


The question is how you'll approach it when it does.


If you want a better way to think through those opportunities before deciding whether they're worth putting your money at risk...


Before You Wire Money: Live Event


Dates: July 14 and July 15, 2026


Time: 4pm PST / 6pm CT / 7pm ET


Location: Live Online Virtual


Investment: $62

Register for "Before You Wire Money: Private Lending LIVE"




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